The Young Widow Podcast
A podcast designed for the young widower, the one struggling to figure out what “life” means without their person. The young widow that feels like she doesn’t belong in the widow group because she is at an earlier point in life. If you are a widow yearning for connection to other widows and trying to understand how to navigate life, this podcast is for you. Created by Britany Rivera, who became a widow and solo-parent at the age of 31. Feeling alienated from the world and at a different point in her life than her friends and family, she created this podcast to bring young widows together and to let them know what they are feeling is “normal” in grief and they can forge a way forward
There Are No Rules
Being a young widow, throw out all of the preconceived notions you had about widowhood. Let go of how you think you should appear in your grief. There is no handbook to being a widow, there is no answer key you can search for and find. You must traverse loss and forge your own path forward for you have your whole life yet to live. How you decide to progress forward can only be determined by you. Will you let your grief define you or will you let your grief guide you to a greater happiness you didn't know existed?
Episodes
Friday Aug 16, 2024
Ep #15: What is this Fog of Widowhood?
Friday Aug 16, 2024
Friday Aug 16, 2024
Hi, welcome to the Young Widow Podcast and thank you for joining me today for Episode 15: the Fog of Widowhood.
Today, I want to talk about the fog of widowhood.
You know, when you go through loss, you can't remember old memories or you forget simple things in your daily life. I want to normalize those and validate it for you.
So today we're going to talk about what is the fog of widowhood and what are examples of it? What causes our brain to go hazy after loss? And how to work through that feeling of being confused and like your brain isn't operating at a normal level and how long something like this could even last for.
Thursday Jun 27, 2024
Ep #14: Acceptance Vs Agreeance and Early Grief Healing
Thursday Jun 27, 2024
Thursday Jun 27, 2024
Hi, welcome to the Young Widow Podcast and thank you for joining me today for Episode 14: Acceptance vs Agreeance and Early Grief Healing
I'm Britany, your host, and I'm happy you could join today. There has been a lot of confusion on my Instagram page and I think this topic warrants a deeper discussion. This topic is focused on early and active grieving, again my niche is the first few years in grief. Not everyone is ready for growth in grief at the same time… in the early stages – you are just trying to figure out how to work through your emotions, what your emotions mean, and just flat out survive because it seems in-survivable. Emotions in grief run so deep that it can seem like there is nothing on the other side – you can’t look past the pain. So let’s talk about, lets validate it because you are growing and accepting even if you don’t think you are.
Today we are going to talk about:
What is acceptance vs agreeance
How are the two different and why are the terms not synonymous
And then we are going to touch on what early grief healing really is.
So let’s get started!
Wednesday Jun 19, 2024
Ep #13: The Loss of Physical Intimacy in Widowhood
Wednesday Jun 19, 2024
Wednesday Jun 19, 2024
Hi, welcome to the Young Widow Podcast and thank you for joining me today for Episode 13: The Loss of Physical Intimacy in Widowhood
I'm Britany, your host, and I'm happy you could join today. This is a topic that was requested on Instagram. I'm always happy to do those topics. This is going to be a very intimate and personal topic, and I'm going to do the best to give you the advice that I can.
It is really hard to replace physical intimacy in widowhood. Whereas when you're dealing with the emotional aspect of grief, you're able to work through coping mechanisms for that. While those two aspects of loss and widowhood go hand in hand. They are very different when you're trying to navigate it.
Today, we're going to cover the loss of physical intimacy, how that affects you physically and emotionally, as well as what that may feel like, thoughts that may be going through your head, and then any advice that I can give you.
Wednesday Jun 12, 2024
Ep #12: The Birthdays Without Them
Wednesday Jun 12, 2024
Wednesday Jun 12, 2024
Episode 12: The Birthdays Without Them
Hi, welcome to the Young Widow Podcast and thank you for joining me today for Episode 12: The Birthdays Without Them.
I'm Britany, your host, and I'm happy you could join today. There are a lot of escalating emotions this week with Father's Day on the horizon, but this is a topic that I wanted to cover because it was requested on Instagram and so I'm happy to cover it whenever you have a request.
Today, we're going to talk about the birthdays without them: emotions around that, how you can feel celebrating it. And then I really want to dive into the emotions around a birthday when you out age, the person that you lost. So with that, let's get started and jump right in.
Wednesday Jun 05, 2024
Ep #11: Insight Into Solo-Parenting
Wednesday Jun 05, 2024
Wednesday Jun 05, 2024
Welcome to the Young Widow Podcast and thank you for joining today for Episode 11, Insights into Solo-Parenting.
I’m Britany, your host and am happy you could join on today. This is my second podcast this week so it has been a busy week! This has been a requested topic and I previously didn’t cover it because it is a little daunting, There is so much to talk about around solo-parenting. It is going to be a longer podcast
This week, I am going to talk about solo-parenting
What it is and how it can be overwhelming
The hard moments and give you some validation there in your feelings
How do we really move forward and grow into this new role of parenting.
So let’s jump in and get started!
Monday Jun 03, 2024
Ep #10: Secondary Losses in Widowhood
Monday Jun 03, 2024
Monday Jun 03, 2024
Episode 10: Secondary Losses in Widowhood
Welcome to the Young Widow Podcast and thank you for joining today for Episode 10, Secondary Losses in Widowhood. I’m Britany, your host and am happy you could join on today. It is an off-cycle podcast but I opened up my Instagram for requests and have a lot of good topics to work through so wanted to start with those rather quickly!
This week, I am going to cover secondary losses in widowhood:
Secondary loss of relationships with friends and family
Secondary losses with jobs and communities
Secondary losses with your home – emotionally and physically
And then, we are going to tie ti all together with talking about the loss of a sense of security. This is a little longer of a podcast that I normally do, so just stick with me and I promise it will be worth it in validating your secondary losses.
So, let’s get started!
Friday May 31, 2024
Ep #9: What to Do With Your Spouse's Things After Loss
Friday May 31, 2024
Friday May 31, 2024
Episode 9: What to Do With Your Spouse’s Things After Loss
Welcome to the Young Widow Podcast and thank you for joining today for Episode 9, What to Do With Your Spouse’s Things After Loss. I’m Britany, your host and am happy you could join on today.
First, I want to apologize for being out the past couple of weeks . We traveled and then I went through a period where I lost my voice and it wasn't conducive for podcasting. Unfortunately, I was forced to take a slight break, but I am back and I'm ready to chat.
Today I want to chat about:
What do you do with your husband's things after loss?
What do those emotions feel like?
What are your options to do with their things?
And then I want to give you some validation maybe in what I did was my husband's things, as well as some other widows that I work with in my coaching process.
So let's get started.
Monday May 06, 2024
Ep #8: Traversing Mother's Day as a Widow
Monday May 06, 2024
Monday May 06, 2024
Welcome to the Young Widow Podcast and thank you for joining today for Episode 8, Traversing Mother’s Day as A Widow. I’m Britany, your host and am happy you could join on today. It is a rainy day here, which always makes me feel gloomy but let’s get started – there is a lot I want to cover today!
This week, I want to talk about traversing Mother’s Day as a widow and the emotions around that and how that may feel. I also want to try and validate a little with all of my followers so I want to do a small segment on traversing Mother’s Day as a widower and then as a widower who maybe doesn’t have children, but wanted them.
So let’s get started.